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What ever happened to our New Year’s resolutions?<\/h1>\n\n
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\u201cNothing in the world is as long as the path from a good intention to a good deed.\u201d<\/strong>– Norwegian proverb<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n

The turn of the year invites us to pause, look back on the past year, and venture a glimpse into the new year, which still lies before us like a blank page full of possibilities. So is this the right moment to tackle changing our lifestyle habits? Yet the resolutions we make spontaneously in this spirit usually don\u2019t stand up to the test of everyday life for very long. So how can we actually make our desires for change a reality? <\/em><\/p>\n\n

Gyms, clubs, and health apps see a surge in new sign-ups in January from people interested in getting fit, but by March, most of them are nothing more than names in their membership files. More exercise, healthier eating, less stress, and more time for family and friends are among the most common New Year\u2019s resolutions year after year. At their core, these resolutions are about self-reflection, improving our health and well-being, and focusing on the people who matter to us. However, these well-intentioned resolutions in particular also carry the risk of causing additional stress, since changing lifestyle habits is a difficult task. The result is that we give up on our plans after a short time and end up feeling frustrated because we haven\u2019t managed to stick to them (yet again). <\/em><\/p>\n\n

Making Wishes Come True\u2014But How?<\/h2>\n\n

The first step is to clarify your own motivation: Why do I actually want to change something in my life? Do I have a personal need to actively reshape my life? Do I want to try something new? Do I want to meet the expectations of others or conform to social norms? Is it actually a matter of a lack of self-acceptance? Or am I driven by the fear of negative consequences resulting from my past behavior? Perhaps the result of my reflection is that I\u2019m actually satisfied with myself and my life\u2014or that I want something completely different. That would be an important realization. However, if I realize that a strong, personal desire is guiding me and motivating me to make a change, then it\u2019s worth taking the next step of focusing on that goal and moving forward with further planning. Only when the goal seems worthwhile to us will we be able to incorporate changes into our daily lives and make a personal\u2014and perhaps uncomfortable\u2014effort. <\/p>\n\n

The goal should be realistically achievable and easily compatible with your other living conditions and daily routines. Putting it in writing helps make it more concrete. For example, the general goal of exercising more can be turned into the specific plan: \u201cI will go jogging every Wednesday at 7 p.m.\u201d Unrealistic long-term goals\u2014such as running a marathon after just two months\u2014may be tempting, but they can also quickly lead to disappointment. It\u2019s better to take small steps and set achievable intermediate goals, for which we can repeatedly \u201cpat ourselves on the back\u201d and reward ourselves with small treats. <\/p>\n\n

The journey doesn’t necessarily have to be long or arduous. However, careful planning can contribute significantly to success. <\/p>\n\n

These include:<\/p>\n\n