{"id":8174,"date":"2026-08-20T15:27:38","date_gmt":"2026-08-20T13:27:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/?page_id=8174"},"modified":"2026-08-27T14:44:29","modified_gmt":"2026-08-27T12:44:29","slug":"self-confidence-fears-friendships","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/en\/employee-service-portal-home-page\/online-services\/self-confidence-fears-friendships\/","title":{"rendered":"Self-confidence, Fears, Friendships"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\" style=\"padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40)\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f56f613f wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Self-confidence, fears, friendships\u2014when does my child need support?<\/h1>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-873e7f5b wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30)\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-style-rounded\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/DSC_0607-edited-scaled.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7152\" style=\"aspect-ratio:16\/9;object-fit:cover;object-position:48% 13%\" srcset=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/DSC_0607-edited-scaled.jpeg 2560w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/DSC_0607-edited-408x306.jpeg 408w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/DSC_0607-edited-1024x768.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/DSC_0607-edited-768x576.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/DSC_0607-edited-1536x1152.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/DSC_0607-edited-2048x1536.jpeg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every child has their own personality. Some children are loud and approach others openly, while others are more cautious, sensitive, or reserved. And that&#8217;s perfectly fine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It usually becomes difficult for parents when they start to feel that <strong>their child is being held back by their insecurity or fears.<\/strong> The child no longer dares to do things that they would actually like to do. He or she has a hard time making friends, avoids certain situations, is very afraid of making mistakes or taking tests\u2014or changes drastically in order to fit in with a group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You might also be wondering: Is this just another phase? Should I offer more encouragement, does my encouragement get through, or should I hold back a bit? Is this group of friends good for my child? Has the moment come when I should step in?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Mental health doesn&#8217;t just begin when a mental illness is diagnosed.<\/strong>  Recognizing stress early on and seeking support when parents are worried can help children before anxiety, withdrawal, or self-doubt begin to increasingly dominate their daily lives. The DAK Prevention Radar 2025 shows that many young people experience such stress: About one-third of the children and adolescents surveyed reported feeling lonely, about one in six reported depressive symptoms, and nearly two-thirds reported frequent exhaustion. Not every instance of anxiety or difficult phase requires treatment\u2014but parents also don\u2019t have to wait until a source of stress has developed into a full-blown mental illness before seeking support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Through us, you can get support from our partner, cleverly, and take the time to figure out what your child and your family need right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"onlineberatung\" class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-elterncoaching has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-primary-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-primary-background-color has-background\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-kifa has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\">Does this sound like your family situation? Get personalized advice now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons aur-service-kifa is-horizontal is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-b0be8b0e wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-kifa\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/en\/?page_id=8155\">Use the contact form<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-kifa\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"tel:08002961133\">Call for free<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:6px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\" style=\"border-radius:0px;border-bottom-color:#e4e4e4;border-bottom-width:1px;margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40);padding-top:0;padding-bottom:0\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:6px\">Does this sound familiar to you?<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Insecurity, fears, or a lack of self-confidence manifest themselves in very different ways in children and adolescents. You may recognize your child in one or more of these situations:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f56f613f wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My child lacks self-confidence<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>\u201cI can\u2019t do that anyway.\u201d<\/strong> Your child is quick to doubt their own abilities or give up as soon as something gets difficult.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mistakes or failures can weigh on your child&#8217;s mind for a long time\u2014or your child may avoid challenges out of fear of making a mistake.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your child is too shy to ask questions in class, raise their hand, speak in front of the class, or express their own opinion.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">School and Academic Performance Become a Burden<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Before tests, presentations, or other situations where one&#8217;s performance is evaluated, the <strong>tension<\/strong> is <strong>very high<\/strong>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your child studies a lot or is actually well-prepared, but still can&#8217;t recall their knowledge during exams.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Before school or exams, students repeatedly experience stomachaches, nausea, or other physical symptoms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f56f613f wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Friendships and social situations are difficult<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Your child <strong>has a hard time making friends<\/strong>, often feels <strong>left out<\/strong>, or <strong>doesn&#8217;t have the confidence<\/strong> to approach other children or teenagers.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It keeps a low profile in groups or avoids social situations, even though it would actually like to fit in or participate.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your child is increasingly withdrawing from activities, hobbies, or social interactions that used to bring him or her joy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">You&#8217;re worried about your circle of friends<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Your child is easily influenced by friends and has trouble saying no or setting personal boundaries.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You feel like your child has <strong>\u201cfallen into bad company\u201d:<\/strong> Their circle of friends has changed, and at the same time, you\u2019re suddenly seeing your child in a completely different light\u2014they\u2019re adopting behaviors or getting involved in things that really don\u2019t suit them at all.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You increasingly feel as though, <strong>\u201cI can\u2019t really connect with my child anymore.\u201d<\/strong> Your child is talking less, withdrawing from you, or changing in ways that worry you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"onlineberatung\" class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-elterncoaching has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-primary-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-primary-background-color has-background\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-kifa has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\">Do you recognize your child? Get personalized advice now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons aur-service-kifa is-horizontal is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-b0be8b0e wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-kifa\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/en\/?page_id=8155\">Use the contact form<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-kifa\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"tel:08002961133\">Call for free<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\" style=\"margin-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\" style=\"border-radius:0px;border-bottom-color:#e4e4e4;border-bottom-width:1px;margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40);padding-top:0;padding-bottom:0\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:6px\">Finding the Right Way to Use Digital Media<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A quiet child doesn&#8217;t need to become more outgoing. A cautious child doesn&#8217;t have to suddenly start seeking out every adventure. Shyness, fear, disappointment, and looking to friends for guidance are also all part of the development of children and adolescents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What matters, therefore, is not <strong>how self-confident a child appears to others<\/strong>, but how freely it can act within its own personality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:18px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f56f613f wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:150px\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel31-819x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8093\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.7997922292626879\" srcset=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel31-819x1024.png 819w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel31-249x311.png 249w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel31-768x960.png 768w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel31.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:750px\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Restrictions imposed by others?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Would you like to know to what extent insecurity, fears, or the influence of others are currently holding your child back? Take the test and find out if support would be helpful.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-vertical is-content-justification-stretch is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-4ccbc9ce wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\">Take the test!<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-f56f613f wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:150px\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel29-819x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8089\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.7997922292626879\" srcset=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel29-819x1024.png 819w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel29-249x311.png 249w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel29-768x960.png 768w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Design-ohne-Titel29.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:750px\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Strengthening Emotional Development<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Recognizing, expressing, and regulating emotions is an important part of a child&#8217;s development. Children learn to manage their emotions primarily through everyday experiences and the guidance of their caregivers. Parents don&#8217;t always have to have the right answers. Often, it\u2019s enough for children to simply feel understood and taken seriously.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-vertical is-content-justification-stretch is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-9eab74be wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\">Watch the video<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/portal\/infobereich-kinder\/die-emotionale-entwicklung-von-kindern-staerken\/\">Read the article<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Support may be helpful when insecurity, fears, or peer pressure increasingly determine <strong>what a child feels capable of doing, what they avoid, and how they behave<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another important sign is change: when a child becomes increasingly withdrawn, gives up things that used to be important to them, and increasingly avoids school or social situations\u2014or when parents feel that their child is changing significantly under the influence of their environment and they are losing touch with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The goal is not to change a child&#8217;s personality.  <strong>The goal is to ensure that his personality does not become a limitation on his potential.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:14px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-primary-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-primary-background-color has-background is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"Kooperationspartner\" class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:21% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"617\" height=\"185\" src=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Logo-blue-orange-yellow-black.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7864 size-full\" srcset=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Logo-blue-orange-yellow-black.png 617w, https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Logo-blue-orange-yellow-black-408x122.png 408w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 617px) 100vw, 617px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to self-confidence and emotional strength, we work together with Cleverly. cleverly specializes in providing educational support to children, adolescents, and their families, offering assistance where issues related to development, everyday school life, and family life intersect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The focus isn&#8217;t on generic, one-size-fits-all advice. Together with the family, we first take a look at: What&#8217;s on our minds right now? What does our child need\u2014and what would make things easier for us as a family? Educational experts then provide guidance to parents and children with practical, everyday strategies.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"onlineberatung\" class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-elterncoaching has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\" style=\"border-radius:0px;border-bottom-color:#e4e4e4;border-bottom-width:1px;margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40);padding-top:0;padding-bottom:0\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:6px\">What are the benefits of support?<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-kifa has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During the consultation, we first take a close look at <strong>where your child is currently struggling and what&#8217;s causing it<\/strong>. Together, we will then develop strategies tailored to your child\u2019s age, personality, and specific situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why External Educational Support Can Help<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parents know their child best\u2014and yet there are situations in which their own cues no longer get through. Especially when uncertainty, fears, or recurring conflicts have already taken hold, a different dynamic can be helpful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Early childhood educators first build a trusting relationship with the child that fosters learning. From this independent vantage point, they can highlight strengths, offer new perspectives, and work with the child to try out specific strategies. What one&#8217;s own parents may have said many times can be heard and received differently by an outside caregiver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The goal here is not to replace parents, but to empower both children and parents so that these new approaches can continue to have an impact in everyday life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-6b705929 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-left\">For children and teenagers, this could mean, for example:<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Recognize your own strengths and assess yourself more realistically<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>learn to question negative thoughts like \u201cI\u2019ll never be able to do that anyway\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cope better with mistakes and setbacks<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>approach difficult situations step by step, rather than avoiding them altogether<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Develop strategies to cope with high levels of stress before exams or other high-stakes situations<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Becoming more aware of and better able to express your feelings and personal boundaries<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>learn to say no and stand up for one&#8217;s own opinion<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How to Deal with Peer Pressure More Confidently<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Better Understand Friendships and Social Situations<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>know when and from whom to seek help<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-left has-large-font-size\">At the same time, parents gain greater confidence in<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>when your child needs encouragement and when extra pressure is more likely to be harmful<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>how they can support their child without taking every difficult situation off their child&#8217;s shoulders<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What changes should they take seriously?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>how they can deal with withdrawal, fears, or avoidance behaviors<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>how they can respond if they&#8217;re concerned about a group of friends or specific friendships<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>When to provide support\u2014and when to take decisive action<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Common Goal<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your child will gain the tools needed so that insecurity, fears, or the influence of others no longer alone determine what they believe they are capable of and which path they take.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:5px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"onlineberatung\" class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-elterncoaching has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\" style=\"border-radius:0px;border-bottom-color:#e4e4e4;border-bottom-width:1px;margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--40);padding-top:0;padding-bottom:0\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-x-large-font-size\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:6px\">It&#8217;s that easy to find the right support<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-kifa has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-7976792d wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. You contact us.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just give us a call. Just briefly describe what\u2019s on your mind right now\u2014you don\u2019t need to know what kind of support you need, nor do you have to look for the right professional yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. We&#8217;ll reach out to you.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We&#8217;ll connect you with cleverly. The team of learning experts at cleverly will reach out to you and take the time to first get to know your situation: What are the challenges you\u2019re facing? What do you hope for your child and for your family&#8217;s daily life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. We&#8217;ll find the right professional for your family.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Based on this conversation, cleverly will select a media education specialist who is a good fit for your needs. You don&#8217;t have to organize anything\u2014cleverly takes care of the next steps.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. You&#8217;ll receive personalized support.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over the course of up to three counseling sessions, the specialist will work directly with you and your child to address your situation. Sometimes it makes sense to talk together as a family; other times, the professional works directly with your child. What really matters is what actually helps you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Interactive Course: \u201cBoost Your Self-Confidence\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If it\u2019s appropriate for your child\u2019s age and situation, the one-on-one counseling can be supplemented by the interactive course \u201cSelf-Confidence Booster.\u201d Among other things, the course helps children to,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>to become more aware of one&#8217;s own strengths,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>To make sense of feelings and fears,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>how to deal with mistakes and setbacks,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>recognizing your own limits and saying no,<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>to have more confidence in themselves in school and social situations<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>and to try out new challenges one step at a time.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We will work together to determine whether the course is a good fit for your child during the consultation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-primary-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-primary-background-color has-background\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&#8217;t have to be absolutely certain that your child has &#8220;a problem&#8221; first. Perhaps you can&#8217;t quite put your finger on what has changed yet. You may simply notice that your child lacks confidence, feels anxious more often, avoids certain situations, or changes significantly under the influence of friends. And maybe it\u2019s this feeling above all else: <strong>\u201cI just can\u2019t seem to connect with my child right now.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can contact us even then. Please bring your observations and questions with you. Together, we&#8217;ll explore what might be behind the situation and what kind of support will help your child and your family right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons aur-service-kifa is-horizontal is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-b0be8b0e wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-kifa\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/en\/?page_id=8155\">Use the contact form<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-kifa\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link wp-element-button\" href=\"tel:08002961133\">Call for free<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"margin-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading alignwide\">Read more on this topic<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-query alignwide is-layout-flow wp-block-query-is-layout-flow\">\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-query-no-results\">\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are currently no related posts.<\/p>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-confidence, fears, friendships\u2014when does my child need support? 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