{"id":8193,"date":"2026-08-17T15:30:57","date_gmt":"2026-08-17T13:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/?aur_infobereich=dealing-with-breakups-and-divorce"},"modified":"2026-08-27T14:44:55","modified_gmt":"2026-08-27T12:44:55","slug":"dealing-with-breakups-and-divorce","status":"publish","type":"aur_infobereich","link":"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/en\/?aur_infobereich=dealing-with-breakups-and-divorce","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with Breakups and Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Key Points at a Glance<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>A breakup or divorce is one of the most life-changing events a person can experience and can trigger a wide range of emotions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Grief, anger, uncertainty, or relief are normal reactions to such a phase of life.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It takes time to adjust to the new situation and reorganize your daily routine.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Support from family, friends, or counseling services can help you cope better with the stress.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Even after a breakup, new opportunities and a fulfilling daily life can emerge.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-custom-kinderbetreuung-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-custom-kinderbetreuung-background-color has-background is-style-wide\"\/>\n<\/div>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A separation or divorce changes many things\u2014often not just the relationship, but also daily life, living arrangements, family life, and plans for the future. What was long taken for granted suddenly has to be reorganized.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everyone experiences this phase differently. Some people feel mainly grief and a sense of loss, while others feel anger, disappointment, or uncertainty. At the same time, a breakup can also bring relief if a relationship has been a source of stress for a long time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As varied as these feelings may be, they are part of a process of change and take time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Allowing Yourself to Feel<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">After a breakup, many people hope to be able to \u201cget back on track\u201d as quickly as possible. But emotional wounds rarely heal overnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s normal for feelings to change over time. Some days feel easier; others bring back memories or doubts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead of suppressing these feelings, it can be helpful to consciously acknowledge and accept them. This is an important step toward gradually coming to terms with the breakup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Reorganizing Daily Life<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A breakup often brings about changes in many practical aspects of life. Decisions regarding housing, finances, shared responsibilities, or\u2014when children are involved\u2014the organization of daily family life require attention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Not everything has to be resolved right away. It often helps to tackle upcoming tasks one step at a time and set priorities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A clear daily structure and familiar routines can provide additional guidance during this time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Children Need Security<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When children are affected by a separation, they, too, go through a period of change. Depending on their age, they react in different ways\u2014with sadness, uncertainty, anger, or lots of questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Children benefit when both parents reassure them that they are still loved and that they are not to blame for the separation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even though the situation is emotionally stressful, when parents treat their children with respect, it helps provide them with a sense of security and stability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Accept Support<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many people tend to withdraw at first after a breakup. At the same time, especially during this period, staying in touch with family, friends, or other people you trust can be a source of comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">An open conversation often helps you sort through your thoughts and gain new perspectives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don&#8217;t have to go through this phase of life alone. Accepting support is not a sign of weakness; rather, it can help you look forward again, one step at a time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Slowly look ahead<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A breakup marks the end of a relationship\u2014but it doesn&#8217;t mean the end of personal growth or new perspectives on life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over time, there is often an opportunity to gain a new perspective on one&#8217;s own needs, change habits, and consciously reshape one&#8217;s life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This process proceeds at a different pace for each person. It&#8217;s important to give yourself the time you need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">In a nutshell<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A separation or divorce often brings about profound changes and triggers a range of emotions. It takes time to adjust to a new life situation and to reorganize your daily routine. Those who accept support, take good care of themselves, and tackle changes one step at a time can gradually develop a new sense of stability and confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-custom-kinderbetreuung-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-custom-kinderbetreuung-background-color has-background is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Your Next Step<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even just a few minutes of reflection can help you apply what you\u2019ve read to your own situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take a moment and ask yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What can help me make my daily life a little easier right now?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Who is someone I trust that I&#8217;d like to talk to about my situation?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What small step can I take in the next few days to look ahead?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-custom-kinderbetreuung-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-custom-kinderbetreuung-background-color has-background is-style-wide\"\/>\n<\/div>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group aur-service-beratung-lebenslagencoaching has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-custom-kinderbetreuung-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-custom-kinderbetreuung-background-color has-background aur-service-pflege is-style-default\" style=\"margin-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30);margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30)\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"aur-service-pflege wp-block-paragraph\">Would you like to receive free advice from our experts on separation and divorce and discuss your specific situation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons aur-service-pflege is-horizontal is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-b0be8b0e wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-pflege\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-custom-kinderbetreuung-background-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/awo-lifebalance.de\/en\/contact\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Use the contact form<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button aur-service-pflege\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-custom-kinderbetreuung-background-color has-background wp-element-button\" href=\"tel:08002961133\">Call for free<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-custom-kinderbetreuung-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-custom-kinderbetreuung-background-color has-background\"\/>\n<\/div>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-custom-haushalt-color has-text-color has-link-color has-medium-font-size wp-elements-bc9570f1252cf9ab2b812f59833a6a1a is-content-justification-center is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-b1abbe07 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group alignwide has-global-padding is-content-justification-center is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\" style=\"margin-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading alignwide\">Read more on this topic<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-query alignwide is-layout-flow wp-block-query-is-layout-flow\">\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-query-no-results\">\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are currently no related posts.<\/p>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A separation or divorce changes many things\u2014often not just the relationship, but also daily life, living arrangements, family life, and plans for the future. 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